Third party...

I am not going to defend myself. It is not my fault that I enjoy the same interests that your men do. But no... I don't go about looking for committed men with the intention to take them away from the women they are committed to. And I will not change who I am - that is, I will always be open, friendly and warm to anyone whom I come across.

I have never asked or expected anyone to fall for me.

But I'm getting very very tired of being accused as the third party. Too many times with various guys. None of them which I ended up with by the way. It hurts me you know, when for some unfathomable reason I have to lose friendships because relationships that were not mine got ugly