Why it is called lovemaking

Met up with T last night and we started discussing if my recent posts made me sound like a slut.

There is no doubt that I am comfortable with my sexuality, and I can understand why some people might term me one. But what if I'm married, and still open and comfortable with being sexual?

I have never thought of sex as a means to an end. It is a sensory connection, of touch that speaks of words that do not need to be voiced out. It is about getting close and pulling down barriers. After all, it is not called lovemaking without reason...

And no... suggestive words and visuals in my writing do not make me a slut. They only indicate that I have a vivid imagination. C'est tout.